Wednesday, September 18, 2013

Belle-guest blogger



Hi. I'm sure most of you know me by now. I'm Belle. Mom calls me Boss Baby. 
I gotta look out for mom. I feel kind of bad for her. She has to go to the bathroom all alone. And since I try to be a good baby I go with her. Mom doesn't want to interrupt me to go with her but I insist. After all I am a good daughter. 
And sometimes when I am playing with my blocks or watching Sesame Street she starts playing with yarn and this hook thingy, so I stop what I am doing to pay attention to her. 
I'm not sure who looked out for her before I came along. Poor thing. 
Keeping mom company is a full time job. I barely have time to take care of Daddy. 






Monday, September 2, 2013

Updates in pictures

Sorry I have been remiss in updating. But as Matt says I have been living the blog not writing it. 
Belle had her mediport inserted without any trouble. And she rocked her bow as long as she could presurgery and got it back as soon as she could post!
First US transfusion went well. Half way thru she stated dancing. 
Those trips to Philly tire a girl out. May as well get comfortable. 


Belle was baptized. She was very patient with the process but thought it was strange that man put water on her head. 
Serenity and I are enjoying the teas we brought home from China. 
Sisters are for helping. 
Happy happy happy birthday to Nikki Lee
Big change for Serenity. She had over a foot of hair cut off to donate to Wigs for Kids. To quote Serenity,"I feel like a different person."



First trip to the cabin for Belle. 








Sunday, August 18, 2013

I know it seems hard sometimes but remember one thing. Through every dark night, there's a bright day after that. So no matter how hard it get, stick your chest out, keep ya head up.... and handle it.” Tupac

Some things are hard. 

Tomorrow I take sweet little Belle to Children's Hospital to have a mediport put in so she will be able to receive her transfusions with a minimum of pain.  Her veins, like the rest of her, are very tiny and fragile.  Some of the IV team put forth the theory that maybe she was more than 19 months old because her veins were so 'beat up' that she would have had more than 6 transfusions (we only know of 6 for sure).  I can't believe she is older than that because of her size. But ???

Some things are hard.

I think about how little I know about her, really.  She has a whole story that I only have the cliff notes to.  I feel a little like Rick in Casablanca when he asked Ilsa, "Who are you really, and what were you before? What did you do and what did you think? "

Some things are just plain hard.

Continue to hold Belle and her doctors up in prayer.  It is going to be so difficult to let them take her from me tomorrow when she goes for surgery. The longest she has been away from me  is the time it takes to shower and I am sure her port placement will take longer than that. 

But some things are sweet.

Once Belle has the port in place, her monthly transfusions will be much easier.  Gone will be the days of multiple sticks and tear streaked faces.  It will be a 'one and done' deal. 
How sweet it is!
 

Wednesday, August 14, 2013

Airplane travel is nature's way of making you look like your passport photo.

As nice as a trip to China is(and it does have it's high points) it is so much better to get home.  With that in mind we said goodbye to our travel group and hopped in a van bound for the Guangzhou airport for our 10:30pm flight to Hong Kong. When I was booking our flight home (on the United website)it was $200 pp cheaper to fly from GZ change planes in Hong Kong with a 12 hour layover than drive or train trip to Hong Kong and fly from there ON THE SAME FLIGHT!!!!
We were flying Dragon Air.  DA has the coolest logo. Seriously, google it.  And that is where the coolness of Dragon Air ends!   We get to the front of the line and check our 3 pieces of luggage to San Francisco. Once we were finally checked in for our flight(after standing in line forever) and waded thru immigration, customs and security(oh my!) and seated somewhat comfortably on the plane, they announced a one hour delay due to traffic. So our flight left at 11:30pm instead of arriving in Hong Kong at 11:30 as scheduled.  You know you are in trouble when they start serving drinks and snacks before you take off. 
We arrived in HK sometime around 12:30 and were off to our last hotel of this trip, Sky City Marriott.   But we had to figure out how to get to their shuttle.  We had to go thru immigration and customs.  Even though we were still in China technically.  By now it is 1 am and immigration is down to 4 officers and about 5 planes have landed.  So we waited in an hour long line to clear customs and immigration from China to China.

 Let me take this moment to sing the praises of sweet Serenity.  She was a trooper this whole trip.  Even the long march home.

By the time we actually get to our hotel and into our room it is 2 am.  The three of us take quick showers and hit the sheets.  I have several Hank the Cowdog books on my iphone and they are wonderful for winding down your mind to help you fall asleep.

We were up and out the hotel room door by 8:30am.  I am glad we booked using points because I would have hated to pay for less than 7 hours in a hotel room.  We had a very nice breakfast at their buffet and were back on the shuttle and back to the airport.

Remember earlier when I said I booked on the United website and we checked out bags thru to San Francisco?  Throw out everything you may think that means because it doesn't.  When we got to the United counter to have our boarding passes printed things kind of fell apart.  But bless my sweet hubby's heart he took care of everything.  We couldn't find the luggage claim tags we had received in GZ so she could make sure our luggage would make the plane.(???)  After calling and tapping on the computer and a good bit of time, everything was hunky dorey and she was able to print our passes.  Let me say here and now she was a very pleasant lady never seeming irritated at us or annoyed at the situation. 

Back thru immigration, customs and security(oh my!) on a tram, down the hall to the gate and walked right on the plane.  Boom, boom, boom! Now we settle in for a 12 + hour flight.  I won't bore you with the agonizing details but I will say that Belle is mommy's girl and this trip was no different.  She was none too pleased when I had to use the 'ladies' on the plane.

Landed safe and sound in the good ole USA, hallelujah!  We were off the plane and headed to (say it with me) immigration, customs and security (oh my!) But is was all good because Belle was a citizen!  We got in the line for immigration, choosing the US citizen line and when we came round the first bend(you know how those lines are back and forth, back and forth) there was an officer.  We showed him the sacred 'do not open no matter what' brown envelope and he opened the rope and led us to a special window.  The officer asked us a few questions, and directed us to 'window 40' . Window 40 officer gave us a form, told Matt not to fill it out and we could have a seat until called.  So we did.  There were (I think) a total of 6 adoption families on the plane.  We were #2 waiting to be called.  Pretty quickly we were called up to another window, bing, boom, bang we were through and on our way to customs.  We pick up luggage go thru the customs line and over to re check our luggage.

At this point we were flying standby thanks to a gift from some good friends that work for United.  So again it took some time to figure things out. But it was all settled and looked like we could make the next flight east to Chicago instead of waiting 9 hours for a direct Pittsburgh flight.  So we checked out luggage there and then it was back thru security, down the hall, round the bend, over the river and thru the woods to our gate.  We waited about 15 minutes and were told, yes there was room for us on this flight.

This was the only time Belle got really fussy.  And let me tell you I do not blame her one iota!  To her tiny body it is the middle of the night and she wants to go to bed! But we made it to Chicago pretty much unscathed waiting for the last leg of out journey.

Did someone mention LEG?  Let me tell you friends, my legs were swollen up tighter than a tick.  It was amazing to look at not so amazing to feel.  And remember Belle loves her mommy so I was trudging her the whole way. 

So we get to our gate for the Pittsburgh flight just as they were loading.  We were 13,14 and 15 on the standby list of a full flight.  Believe it or not one of us could have got on the flight.  I was just as glad to not make that flight since the next one was only 2 hours later.  I needed a break from airplanes and airplane food.  So we made the trek to the next gate.  Again Serenity was being a trooper, always concerned how her sister was doing.  She is such a gem.

At the next gate I saw a Starbucks and gladly ponied up the dough to get Serenity and I Frappacinos!   MMMM icy goodness.  Matt struck out in search of food.  Successfully slaying the wild hotdog and ensnaring the cunning deep dish pizza, he ensured his family was fed.  And then I used one of our carry-ons to put my puffy tootsies up!

We made the next flight no problem and I even had an open seat beside me.  We landed in Pittsburgh just after midnight making our total journey time 24 hours and 15 minutes!

Dean and Nikki picked us up and we were bound for home sweet home.  Thank You Jesus!

This is how we spent 24 hours!  Either in the Saddle or just in my arms. 

Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Sometimes we struggle through a tasteless coffee till the last sip, then we find sugar lying at the bottom .. that's life, sweetened but not stirred well.

Somehow my last post didn't post.  It is out there somewhere....it may show up someday unexpected, who knows.  But I will try to reconstruct what my jet lagged brain can gather.

Our last days in Guangzhou flew by.  We were able to visit Shamain Island twice and it was great.  I absolutely love the island.  It was probably 15 degrees cooler since it is surrounded by water and tree lined.  We walked around and showed Serenity some of the places that were important in her adoption trip.  We shopped and had dinner at the famous Lucy's.

The consulate appointment went off without a hitch.  I was able to meet the officer I had emailed with to expedite Belle's Article 5.  It was so nice to put a face with the name.  I thanked him for being so responsive to her need.  We had left the hotel at 8:50 and were back by 11:15. Pretty quick.  We did group pictures with everybody and the reality that we were heading home soon started setting in.

Then next morning we had nothing we had to do except pack!  After a nice breakfast we started finding places for all the treasures we had gathered up along our journey.  But we needed to leave a little room because the afternoon was time to hop on the bus for more shopping!
(are you sensing a theme in Guangzhou?  Not only is it the place to do the American portion of the adoption but it is also the reward for surviving Zhengzhou!)
We started at the Pearl Market.  We bought 6 strands of pearls, 1 for me, 1 for Serenity, 1 for Belle, 1 for Nikki and 1 each to give Mattie and Donovan's brides on their wedding day, Then it was back to the island.  We were able to find the shop we had been looking for and make some special purchases for back home.

That evening we bid farewell to Guangzhou and started out trip home.  But that is a tale for another time.  Until then Guangzhou in pictures
How we traveled around China.  Matt started calling the Hip Hammock 'The Saddle'.

Stringing our pearls

White Swan hotel is still under renovation

Waiting to go into the consulate

Cathy and Belle

Cathy and the big girls
Group 2012

Babies.


baby face


hotel pool

Medical appointment waiting.  


Famous Shamain Island statues

I'm not sure how Matt did this picture but I thought it was cool





Monday, August 5, 2013

Medical and more

Guangzhou time is flying by. Yesterday morning we did a city tour. 

First stop was Six Banyan Buddhist temple. We missed visiting here with Serenity because she was sick. We had the option of having a blessing by a monk. We declined but enjoyed visiting and exploring the grounds  

The next stop was Chen Academy. It is a beautiful place. I love looking at the traditional architecture. Funny thing is I never thought of myself as someone who was into architecture but I kinda am. 

Last stop was an arts and crafts market. Ka-Ching!!   We bought several goodies including tea and Belle's baptism dress. 

Back to the hotel for a nap and daddy went to do some paperwork for the consulate. After dinner we went to do a little more shopping. Belle loves the shopping.  She points and babbles the whole time. 

I brought her back for bed and dad and big sister went for a swim. Then dad went for a massage 

This morning we had the required medic appointment. Belle did not enjoy it. If that is any indication if what we have to look forward to, we may be in trouble. 

After Belle wakes up from her nap we are going to Shamain Island for..wait for it....more shopping. 

But  first some pictures
Pre-breakfast cracker
Everyday she wants a cracker right away
Fortunately she is under 2 so we avoided the TB blood draw
Wine vending machine at med center
Just in case....
Big Sisters on the bus
Ya lookin at me dad?
I'm lookin at you
So am I

Despite the look on her face she was having fun teasing dad on the bus. Slowly but surely dad is gaining ground


Saturday, August 3, 2013

Guangzhou baby


ALast stop on the China adoption march. Guangzhou is where all Americans must visit to complete their adoptions. We are at the China Hotel. It is a Marriott and Matt is an elite member so we have a very nice suite with executive lounge privileges. And best of all the ac is working very well. 

The orphanage visit went well. It is a brand new facility. They just moved there June 1. The first room we went in was Belle's.  We got to meet her special 'grandma'. This was the woman that went with Belle for her hospital stays. It was her day off but she came in because she heard Yu Qing(Belle) would be there. I owe this woman so much, a debt I can never repay.  We took lots of pictures for waiting families and I cried plenty.   

That night Belle did her first grieving session. An hour and a half of inconsolable crying and wailing.  It was hard to watch but I know it had to happen. I'm sure it isn't the last time it happens and I'm sure we will get thru it. 

Today she was a happy camper. She had her first plane ride and did great. She slept for most of it. A big thank you to the inventor of the Hip Hammock. It made going thru the airport a breeze and kept her secure on the plane while we napped. 

And now for what I know you are waiting for. 
She loves the bows
And the hats
Got Yogurt?

Serenity and Alex
First flight and the Hip Hammock